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I could not remember exactly when, but a powerful thought came to me when I was in lower primary.  Prior to that year,  I came in 8th in class.  There were slightly less than 40 of us, so it was not bad really, I thought.  Then, out of nowhere, there was this small voice that came whispering to me, “If others can be in the top 3, why can’t you?”  I was stunned for a moment.  Very simple, yet very true.  I could not recall what raced through my mind thereafter, but one thing for sure, I knew that I could do anything, if I wanted to and if I believed so.  The following year, I came in 2nd in class.

If you’ve used some of the tools I’ve been teaching, you have probably identified fears and beliefs about yourself, the world, life, and “the way things are” that are consciously or unconsciously keeping you from realizing your dreams. It’s only when you identify these limiting beliefs that you can work to dissolve them, which you must, if you don’t want them to continue to sabotage you. An effective way of working with beliefs involves challenging them cognitively. Byron Katie has developed a powerful technology for challenging beliefs in her Work, and I’ve adapted a few of her methods here.

I say, “everyone who is loved by someone, leaves a legacy in some form, even if it is what not to do”. However, few people get to experience the power of a structured living legacy”.

My PhD research taught me that what people wish to leave as their legacy are their values, beliefs and philosophies. You need first to understand and then be understood. So when I ask “What is important to you?” you need to stop and think. What do you value? Most people do not value money, as such, although the easy answer is they may value what money brings to them; possessions and lifestyle. But when tested, most people don’t value things that highly. What about you?

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