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An estimated 67% to 93% of human communication (according to university researchers) is non-verbal, and your body language reveals your internal emotional state. Whether someone’s parents just died, or whether they just got promoted to CEO… you can tell by observing their body language.

So, as a man who tries to pick up and seduce women, you should be mindful of what you’re communicating non-verbally.

Body language consists of the following:

- Your movements. They should be nonchalant, as if you’re so fabulously successful that there’s rarely a reason for you to rush nor try to impress anybody. Move through the world doing what you want and assuming that others will follow.

Having a girlfriend can be a dangerous thing. We become too dependent on our woman for our happiness, and then if we get dumped, we find that we’ve all of a sudden lost our confidence. This results in being without sex for many months, until we finally get a girlfriend again, and… the cycle repeats.

So to break this cycle, we need to REMAIN the attractive guy, the alpha male.

You see, relationships can make us guys too lazy (since the sex is so easy) and we lose that “high value” mindset. It’s crucial to keep that alpha male frame of mind that says, “I am like a Lamborghini.”

“A goal is a dream with a deadline!” That’s a very precise and accurate statement made by a motivational speaker during one of his discourses. Motivational speakers are often hired by companies for varied purposes. They either conduct a management development program or undertake a training session. Most often, motivational speakers are also hired for announcing important management decisions, service initiatives or even product launches. The whole idea is to convey the all important message through an able orator, who would be able to put across the inherent essence of the information conveyed.

“The sign on the door of opportunity reads PUSH!” These are meaningful statements that have been derived from common aspects of our daily lives, and hence are much more fathomable and easier to accept. A good motivational speaker is one who knows what to say and how to say it in a manner that will have maximum impact. Hiring speakers for corporate training programs, in order to strengthen workforce teams and motivate them, is a common phenomenon. Most business leaders view this as an easy and effective means to optimize team performance.

“Tough situations don’t last but tough people do”, that’s the truth behind successful achievers. We are all familiar with Malcolm Gladwell’s famous book, which deals with the factors contributing to phenomenal success. He discusses the cases of people you have proved their mettle, like Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates, the rock band Beatles and many more, addressing them as “outliers”. According to him “outliers” are people who do not fit into our normal understanding of achievement, but go way beyond. That’s what we all aim to be in the one coveted life that we have: outliers!

An excerpt from my book ‘The Journey Home‘ – Autobiography of an American Swami http://www.thejourneyhomebook.com For reviews on this book, visit http://www.radhanath.com.

It was cold, but smoke from cooking fire filled the air. Suddenly, quite unexpectedly, I was literally brought to my knees by culture shock. My eyes burned from the smoke. I felt dizzy and nauseated, deeply disoriented and afraid. All at once, I found it impossible to identify with anything my five senses perceived. Utterly alienated, my ego succumbed to a painful breakdown. On my knees, sweating with emotion, I struggled to connect something to the world that I knew. I failed. I felt totally disconnected. Although the dire poverty was disheartening, the people of Herat appeared to be the happiest, most carefree people I’d ever seen. This surreal combination of poverty and happiness short-circuited my intellect.

In this article we will explain the theory of life and its fundamental principle. We will be engaging in a step by step method, discovering your feelings and alternative’s, and when this article, is finished, you should have a reasonably, useful tool, you could immediately use, in your life, to give it a purposeful course.

There are three steps to the method of finding the purpose, of your life:

1) Knowing the principle of choice.
2) Creating your fundamental principle.
3) Adjusting your life with the fundamental principle.

1) Knowing the principle of choice.

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: We Gravitate to How We Initially Vibrate

Childhood inner disciplinary dynamics continually play themselves out in our day to day lives, especially where romantic involvements are concerned.  We are constantly ‘on guard’ either consciously or unconsciously, gauging our manner of speaking, acting and filtering our thoughts of tenuous strings through the corset of our most intimate relationships. We stand as a caustic regent on the thresh hold of our most pearlized cherished emotions, deprecating ourselves and the other, for not paying homage to them in the correct manner expected. We accept nothing less than the idolized perception of ‘what should be’ as we have jack hammered the illustrious opinions into our brain’s circuitry

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Unconscious Murmurings Reveal Explicit Instruction

We know what we’re doing! We’re not stupid. We know the difference of when we are talking too much and when we actually have something important to say. We talk way too much; we all ‘run our mouths’ entirely too much. But, why? Who are we really talking to? Could it be that we are carrying on an inner dialectal conversation with ourselves while using the others to bounce of? In other words, are we really simply talking to ourselves aloud? If that be the case, we are probably not saying what we really intend, desire and propose to say since we are none that innocently revealing. On some very basic level, we are ignoring the other to some degree. Something to seriously ponder, possibly.

‘If you can fill the unforgiving minute, With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it’  If by Rudyard Kipling, renowned Poet and Author who credited the inception of his writing career to the bullying he received as a child

How has life been treating you, or how have you been treating life?  We have been travelling, properly away from home for over a month.

As you will know, a journey involves not just your feet, a car or a plane but your experience of the road you travel, the people you travel with and those you meet along the way.  In many ways your journey makes you.  Your arrival simply confirms what you have become.